I watch neither because neither has a passable web UI, especially without a login
I watch YouTube shorts. On my pc, when I get home. Because grayjay doesn’t show shorts.
I hate shorts because they are different from what was cool in my youth
Pants only.
why would this be a symbol of old age?
i feel like it’s actually just an incestuous mix of thinking you are better than tiktok but still holding onto an immature version of yourself by being on instagram.
maybe i just see social media use as an inherently immature thing? (including lemmy)
idk, is this a wrong opinion to hold?
Email is a social media and it’s very grown up.
i guess its a media that is intended for social use, but i feel thays similar to calling a cooked meal “processed food”. like yeah technically correct (best kind), but also defying the indended meaning when most people use the term.
How would you define social media to exclude email?
I’m not them but for me “social media” in the colloquial use has some sort of discoverability and some functionality to put out a piece of media publically in a way that can then be discovered. (Note that this isn’t my entire definition, just the part where I feel email is disqualified.)
For emails you need external services to find, subscribe and/or manage things such as mailinglists to sorta approach this behavior.
I wait for them to be regurgitated until they end up youtube or lemmy.
I find out about tiktok videos through lemmy or somebody in the family signal chat sharing them (if ever). Yesterday I found out about Baby Rexha (?) and Bad Bunny, which sounded like video games, but are music artists.
The top 5 websites in the world are mostly reposts from the other 4.
And here I was, thinking my lemmy feed was the sign of me being hip and youthful…
spoiler
Ah well, I guess it’s off to pixelfed for me.
