• Pringles@lemm.ee
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      9
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      1 year ago

      Jokes aside, it’s all about confidence. If anything, fake it 'till you make it. I was terrible with girls for a long time until I stopped caring and just went for it. Then I was amazed how easy it was.

    • flying_sheep@lemmy.ml
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      8
      ·
      1 year ago

      Stop sweating it. Don’t focus on it when meeting people. It’ll happen, and it’ll be better if you come to it by being an enjoyable human being.

    • ComradeKhoumrag@infosec.pub
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      1 year ago

      Masturbate furiously until you fuck someone

      On a more serious note, there is something good about not getting that need satisfied. Everyone’s different, but I have noticed a tendency in people that get that need satisfied very early on, and those that don’t.

      There are definitely exceptions to this, but generally speaking, I have noticed those that get that need met have less excuses to grow, or sometimes grow so much with the person they love, that they end up losing a bit of themself

      Outside of my own experiences, there’s a YouTube channel I found recently “HealthyGamerGG”, really cool stuff there