I’m sorry your local drag community sucks so much. There’s definitely drama in our local scene, but on the whole it’s very much a trans-inclusive space here. A lot of the big names in my area are trans themselves.

I hope you get to find that someday, because a good drag scene is welcoming, and it’s a great way to express complex feelings about gender and deconstructing societal norms and expectations. But when it’s done badly, it can be really bad.