• ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
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    15 hours ago

    Umm technically by ignoring them she is the opposite of a slut. Just saying.

    Not that there’s anything wrong with sluts. I’m very slutty myself.

    • Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca
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      Most women learn from a very young age that the real definition of slut is 1) you used to have sex with me and not longer do so you’re a slut; 2) I want to have sex with you but you don’t notice me therefore you’re a slut; and 3) my boyfriend, husband, guy I like thinks you’re hot so you’re a slut. Doesn’t have anything to do with what sex the “slut” may or may not be having. Many women were labelled sluts while they were still virgins.

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          14 hours ago

          slut isn’t a slur lol Otherwise, neither of us would be casually dropping it without fear of social repercussion.

      • gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de
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        I guess it would make sense to counter that slur with a counter-slur.

        I.e., when somebody calls you a slut, respond by calling them a “needy one” or sth. Might hit a spot.

        where the “need” is the need to be an asshole, i mean

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      I’m very slutty myself.

      I hope you’re prepared for the flood of dik piks you’re about to receive from the unwashed masses

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        OPs got plenty of their own dick pics on their profile.

        I salute you ExhibiCat, fellow uncut person 🫡

        • ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
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          Yeah I didn’t want to mention that because I don’t like to share them nonconsensually. I also mark them as NSFW of course. At the instance I post them they’re welcomed. But yes my username checks out. 🤭

          I’m in Europe, circumcision is very rare here.

          I probably should make a separate account though to post SFW. Thanks for the reminder

      • ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
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        15 hours ago

        Well I’m a guy. Heteroflexible and pretty open though so I don’t mind dick pics.

        In fact the instance I’m on is full of them :)

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      Sure but that doesnt matter. The point is making insults they thing will hurt or humiliate you, because they feel humiliated. People do that by insulting presumed insecurities.

      Women get called fat ugly sluts, men get called small dicked virgin losers. We’re just calling each other failures at our gender roles.