I need to learn to establish boundaries (work, family…).

I found a book, forgot the doctor’s name but by the third paragraph he started mentioning the christian god.

hard pass. I want to learn about boundaries, not about your god.

  • morphballganon@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    I’ve heard good things about Polysecure. I understand your question doesn’t pertain to non-monogamy, but non-monogamy is an extension of being able to set and respect boundaries yourself rather than simply adopting boundaries that are the default in your community, so maybe it would be helpful?

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      21 hours ago

      It’s really good. It’s definitely from a polyamorous perspective, but it’s mostly about attachment styles and boundaries. I feel like it has a lot of good general relationship advice, it just doesn’t assume that you’re only going to have one partner at a time.