• SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz
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    2 years ago

    Men gauging their worth based on if/how much they’ve had sex is such a fucking stupid concept.

    Let’s throw it away soon and replace it with something less toxic.

    • chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      2 years ago

      Tied very closely with related mindsets like “men all only want sex”, “men and women can’t be friends”, and the idea that life is basically a competitive game where the point is to promote your bloodline, acquire the status symbols you’re supposed to want, and screw over everyone else.

  • TheDarksteel94@sopuli.xyz
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    2 years ago

    It’s not even funny how many people still equate “having sex” with something everyone has to do AT LEAST ONCE before they’re 18. That’s a super dangerous mindset.

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      2 years ago

      Aah, luckily that mentality hasn’t spread over to my country. Otherwise I would be really fucked (in the figurative negative sense, not the literal)

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    2 years ago

    It’s so wild how much I kept myself from meeting/talking to women and staying inside because I “knew” they wouldn’t like me.

    I worked up the nerve to ask a beautiful woman what she was doing after work, and this stunning 32 year old blonde actually blushed, she got nervous, and she invited me to her house where we hooked up. This gave me the confidence to ask another woman for her email address months later, and I’ve been happily married to that one for 14 years.