• interdimensional_sharts@lemmy.world
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    11 hours ago

    What is the intent in each case? I perform one act today with selfish intent that happens to help someone, but what about tomorrow? Or the next day? Am I improving on the act to see if I can help more people tomorrow? Not with selfish intent I’m not.

    Today I tried with good intention to help someone. It doesn’t work. But, my true intent is to help- so I learn from my mistake today because I genuinely care, and tomorrow I now help one person with my act. I continue to improve and grow as a person, and over the next few years, I am helping out many others and bringing joy into the lives of those around me, inspiring others to also live their lives with good intention, creating a ripple effect.

    I believe that is much more important than any kind of selfish intent, no matter how much the selfish act happened to help today.

    • CileTheSane@lemmy.ca
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      3 hours ago

      Intent matters but it’s not more important than the act itself.

      Person A does a helpful act today for selfish reasons. Person B wants to help people but wants to make sure they are helping in the right way, so they don’t do anything today while they try to figure out the best way to do it. Tomorrow they both get hit by a bus.

      What’s more important? That Person B had good intentions, or that Person A actually fucking helped someone?