We live in different countries. I left the US because it was driving me crazy, and my heart goes out to you since I know a lot of people feel that way but don’t have a viable exit strategy. I’ve put in a lot of work to stop participating in an empire of slavery and stolen land, moved back to the land of my grandparents (which has its own terrible history, perfect being the enemy of good as we all know).

I’m against all the buckets. The only bucket we’re all in is a gravity well, and we need to act like it if we’re not going to hate it every minute.