• Deestan@lemmy.world
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    A frequent frustration is recursive guilt-by-association.

    “Yeah so okay we do align on everything however you refuse to denounce your friend who didn’t really do anything but he is a fan of a controversial figure who also didn’t really say or do much but they are friends with a bad person so… Get lost?”

    Another is translation based on the assumption that one’s assumptions are universal.

    “You said you think Terry Davis was a technical genius for his OS. Honestly his work is nothing compared to a modern OS. I think so so therefore you must think so, and so you must mean something else. What you are really praising is his extremist christianity.”

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    Absolutely. No one hates the left more than slightly different brands of the left.

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    I’ve seen liberal POCs say racist shit about White people more times than I can count.

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      I would also say that the idea of changing the definition of racism to mean that you cannot be racist toward a white person is also inherently racist. You could say, “person X is oppressed by people Y, so I understand why they are racist” but that doesn’t mean that they aren’t racist, or that it’s okay.

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        Oh, yeah, I’ve heard that line plenty of times. I agree, it’s just a convoluted argument to mask anti-White racism. Funnily enough, I’ve seen plenty of White people say it. Sad.

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    So it depends how you define progressive.

    As a PoC I have certainly witnessed racism from white, black and Hispanic liberals. At its worst the democratic party can feel like a clubhouse for non regressive white people and the largest minority groups in the country. No one else really has a seat at the table. Is that really progressive?

    I’ve moved on to assessing peoples worldview as either inclusionary or exclusionary. Unfortunately most people, left or right, have an exclusionary world view.

    Exclusionary here means a failure to acknowledge the universal sanctity of human dignity. Nearly everyone is focused on themselves or their group exclusively. Some in ways that are more harmful than others.

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      Can’t agree with you enough.

      What kills me about the DEI stuff… is it’s only considered ‘inclusive’ of atheist liberal colleges educated types… for some reason their ‘diversity’ always excludes economic, age, and religious diversity.

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    Constantly. Usually it takes the form of reducing topics to binary choices and/or purity tests.

    • “You’re either with me or against me / You’re either part of the solution or part of the problem”
      • Where “part of the solution” means doing exactly, and only exactly what they think you should be doing.
    • “If you don’t satisfy all of my impossible requirements, you’re as bad as a nazi”
    • “We only agree on 99 out of 100 things, so clearly you’re not to be trusted”
    • etc
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      i really have never encountered someone like this.

      unless the ‘purity test’ is being anti genocide or pro trans rights. you know, basic fundamental shit.

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        Genocide is a term that is both over and under used. There are currently about six genocides ongoing. I don’t see the point in trying to call someone out on it because no one is actually doing anything for or against it outside of a very small number of people.

        If someone asks me if I’m anti genocide I assume they mean something they specifically consider a genocide and they are trying to use this as bait to get me to out myself in some way. They don’t actually expect I’m personally participating or countering it in any way.

        Trans rights also is a loaded term now because there are a LOT of individual rights Trans people are needing to fight for all in parallel. It’s better to be specific.

        Sure someone who says they are against trans people is awful, but I find folks set the bar in different places and use that to start an argument. The easiest example is, what age should someone be allowed to transition which is an intensely challenging question to answer even on a medical level.

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          Yeah, the comment above is kind of a hilarious example of cognitive dissonance. “I’ve never seen purity tests, other than these tests for ensuring purity”. Blanket statements like that are rarely used in good faith.

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              There’s no assumption. They literally listed two purity tests that they themselves use, directly after saying that they never see anyone use purity tests

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                Their purity test: You must not deny genocide.

                What you heard their purity test was: They must accept that any and all genocides that I think exist are real and a big problem.

                Again, you fucking morons are inferring things that aren’t there just to try and be witty, while utterly missing the point…

                Congratulations on failing your reading comprehension test.

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                  You’ve got a bunch of nutjobs that will turn that phrasing into a white genocide conversation is the problem.

                  The second part of that is that genocide is a subjective term due to classification of ethnic groups being subjective.

                  Honestly this well encapsulates the problem I tend to have aligning on goals with other progressives and some liberals. Every time folks try to simplify something as complex as genocide down to a yes or no question it means they are already invalidating the majority of positions and forcing a conversation of agree with me or call me wrong. That isn’t how it works, that isn’t how discussion and debate work. Forcing people into Yes/No thinking doesn’t lead to progress, asking for people to think critically does.

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          The easiest example is, what age should someone be allowed to transition which is an intensely challenging question to answer even on a medical level.

          That actually has a really simple answer, the right age is the one that the person and their doctors/medical professionals consider age appropriate for that individual. It isn’t up to society to restrict that decision. That is before the fact that medical professionals with direct experience with the person will have the best opinions on the topic.

          This is also true for every single medical decision. Also true for every decision that doesn’t directly harm someone else.

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    Purity testing.

    If you don’t align with the party narrative 100%, down to the atom, then you’re basically maga.

    I don’t think people realize this is a major factor that drives people away from progressive politics.

    When a conservative meets someone more conservative, they bitch about liberals. When a leftist meets someone more left than them they compete with each other to see who’s most “pure.”

    This is a major problem.

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    Yes. I’ve even seen progressive people being quite racist. Political beliefs don’t always line up with how people act in everyday life.