ᙖᖇƐ>ᜊᙃ ッ@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 10 months agoWhat's the best question to ask someone who you don't know very well?message-squaremessage-square139fedilinkarrow-up1138arrow-down12
arrow-up1136arrow-down1message-squareWhat's the best question to ask someone who you don't know very well?ᙖᖇƐ>ᜊᙃ ッ@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 10 months agomessage-square139fedilink
minus-squareMDKAOD@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up4·10 months agoBecause people are opinionated. It’s a fun way to hear someone speak passionately about something. Gives you a sense of who they are.
minus-squarecosmicrookie@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·10 months agoBut people are just as passionate, or hopefully even more so, of things that they enjoy. Why go into negativity when you could be listening to their positive passions?
minus-squareUnquote0270@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down1·10 months agoIt’s pretty common to bond over dislikes. Besides, disliking something isn’t negative, and there’s nothing wrong with being negative even if it were.
Because people are opinionated. It’s a fun way to hear someone speak passionately about something. Gives you a sense of who they are.
But people are just as passionate, or hopefully even more so, of things that they enjoy. Why go into negativity when you could be listening to their positive passions?
It’s pretty common to bond over dislikes. Besides, disliking something isn’t negative, and there’s nothing wrong with being negative even if it were.