• sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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    1 month ago

    Largely yes, but within reason, and only when under direct parental supervision. Drinking and smoking can be part of religious or cultural practices, so a small amount of that should be completely acceptable. But these should only be allowed within the home, with an exception for media, which should be allowed w/o supervisio with explicit permission (e.g. a written note or verbal confirmation at a theater or something).

    Allowing these could constitute child abuse, but I don’t think there should be a blanket ban.

    • sunbeam60@lemmy.one
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      1 month ago

      Ok, good to understand your viewpoint. It’s clear you seek an entirely different way of managing vices for children. I can appreciate the world you’re describing, where responsible adults help and guide their children to maturity.

      I live in the U.K., not sure where you live, but it is my utmost conviction that many parents here do not guide and shape their children and that should your approach to vice management be instituted, you’d see an heap of children slip into dependency before 10.

      But you may live in a different part of the world, one where your approach could work. What do I know?