FlashZordon@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 year agoWhat are some positive influences you got from an ex?message-squaremessage-square13fedilinkarrow-up115arrow-down10file-text
arrow-up115arrow-down1message-squareWhat are some positive influences you got from an ex?FlashZordon@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 year agomessage-square13fedilinkfile-text
minus-squareSokathHisEyesOpen@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·1 year agoI learned what behaviors I absolutely should not and will not tolerate, which made my relationships and happiness better moving forward.
minus-squareBOMBS@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·1 year agoMe too. I became a boundary border guard. Never again. The first girl I dated after her got cancelled real quick. I didn’t bother over-explaining or falling for bait to argue. I said that I need time alone, and if she didn’t like that, then bye ✌️
I learned what behaviors I absolutely should not and will not tolerate, which made my relationships and happiness better moving forward.
Me too. I became a boundary border guard. Never again. The first girl I dated after her got cancelled real quick. I didn’t bother over-explaining or falling for bait to argue. I said that I need time alone, and if she didn’t like that, then bye ✌️