So, I’m gay and this is my first relationship. Just recently started having sex. I’ve never had any interest in the penetrating side of things. I’m on the “passive” side. I have no idea what the average is, but my bf can only go for up to 10 mins tops. It seems short to me. Maybe it’s cause I have no previous experience and all I know is from online stuff. Sorry if it’s a dumb question. I don’t know if I should mark this as NSFW or not.
A more positive way to approach your problem might just be to make sure they get theirs before everything starts. In mm sex that’s a bit more difficult but if you’re concerned that everything will be over once you finish then do the fun stuff before you start.