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Cake day: October 7th, 2020

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  • There different reasons for wanting privacy or advocating for for personal data privacy and implimenting strategies to support that.

    If ever you are in trouble with the state or make the wrong person on the internet angry, the more you’ve publically shared the easier it will be for them to find something to use against you. So… you can try not to get on anybody’s bad side to limit that possibility or you can do your best to compartmentalize your online activities.

    It should be possible to ask for help or show vuneralbility online without telling anybody (or thing) absolutely everything about you every time.




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    If you find yourself in a situation where you decide to (or need to) lie, why wouldn’t you keep doing it?

    Parent assaults you if you give them an honest answer? You will learn really fast to give the “correct” answer even when its a lie.

    Working customer service? You will lie constantly because answering truthfully typically gets you attacked by the customer, your supervisor and/or your manager.

    Anytime you’ve ever been asked, “How are you doing today?”, and you answered, “Okay.”, you were probably lying.

    Not sure how I feel about conflating “dishonest behavior” and “lying” in this article…

    In each instance, subjects were able to earn a bonus payment by giving a certain response, knowing that experimenters would not be able to trace whether their response actually represented the truth. That said, researchers were able to estimate the relation between someone’s tendency to lie and their self-reported personality traits.

    So… if all I need to do to get more money is just give you the answer “Give me more money”… this is supposed to mean I’m a liar and not a person who needs more money? There was a control group that was asked the same question but without the monetary incentive right?











  • Depends on the store.

    Your non chain store that has a loyalty program, probably doesn’t have the interest or capital to pay some third party to manage the data collection and analysis to try to direct market things to you.

    Worked at a co-op grocery store for a while. The “owners” could use their owner number to keep track of their purchases to count towards their patronage refund amount and it also allowed some limited ability to look at full transaction information to deal with misrings, returns without recipts, etc. in the decade that I worked there, there was no effort or interest (even though the people running the coop at the highest level were definitely “business goober” types) to try to use the info for direct marketing or to sell to a data broker.




  • I’d say its time to disengage from the conversation.

    Having the conversations and sticking to your points is good and all but they didn’t come to their opinions based on “facts and logic” so you’re not going to facts and logic them into a different opinion.

    Possibly try to pay attention to when your friend has gotten to the point in the conversation that they’ve effectively shut down and wind down the conversation when it gets to that point. Talk about something else, everybody goes outside and touches grass, or just call it a day.