A term for a similarly related self-appraisal popped up in the early 2000s of Metrosexual. Obviously it has faded, but was for a time a steadfast declaration by plenty of men at the time (I was one of them). I’m old now so my pulse on such things has waned - but hell yeah, brother - you do you! That’s always attractive imo.

Thank you for sharing this link! Fucking wild times we are in.

Gulf of Butt Sharpies!

Life is sitting. Sit up in bed, sit in car, sit in office, repeat until bedtime. And if you think about it - laying down is really just the advanced/ultimate form of sitting.

DNC

If only our species took more from Bonobos than Chimps…

I’d appreciate a message when you go live! People like you are amazing.

I’ve 3D printed A LOT of similarly shaped scratchers and give them away randomly to people - they are wonderful to have. I even have some in my car and at my office lol. I slapped my name on them in the Slicer software so people remember where they got it!

Planned obsolescence

It is about power. Victimize to dehuminize.

Such a succinct and well written comment, thanks.

“Scoundlel” is kinda win in its own way, cause cat.

I always say: “I hope to die in my sleep right before my Monday morning alarm goes off”. Seems as ideal as I could hope for.

Just put them in your mouth.

Lol I like this one

Professional advice is the best route to go. In the meantime there is a wonderful YT channel called “No Bad Dogs” out of NYC I believe. Their approach is full-spectrum regarding positive reinforcement, positive punishment, etc. Also, one of the main ways I work with my (non-abused puppies & not a professional) with resource guarding is as follows: grab a low-value and high-value item. Give the dog the low-value item, tell them “out” after a short time (no touching/forcing), the moment they drop it say “yes” and give them the high-value item. Do this randomly, short and sweet. Best of luck.

3 and 7

It’s almost always projection.

I adore this shit lol