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Cake day: July 9th, 2023

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  • It’s not so simple and easy to get away from an abusive partner. They often put on a fake persona when meeting a new partner for the first time.

    You might not realize how screwed up someone is until some time later, and it’s usually after they’ve sunk their claws into you.

    If they’ve managed to work their tactics on people that should be your support network, it makes it even harder to leave and get help. The more skilled someone is at manipulating, the harder it is to see them as they truly are.

    This woman didn’t deserve to die, and the husband is clearly a threat to society if he kills someone over a TV show.











  • A man can become incel for a variety of reasons. Experiences with peers, parents divorcing, and so on.

    At one point I think I could’ve ended up an incel but strangely enough being a lone wolf and having the Internet to access stopped me whereas for others they continued down that path.

    From being a lone wolf type I never really dip too much into other people’s crap. And having a resource like the web allowed me to learn multiple perspectives.

    If incel and simp were on a continuum, I’d prefer to be somewhere in the middle. Don’t want to sit rage and whine about what’s unfair in regards to romance, etc and go off the deep end but I certainly don’t want to be a doormat either. Life keeps teaching me that moderation is key, time and time again.

    As I’ve gotten older, I realized my true issue is with narcissists and narcissism. And that’s something that knows no gender, nationality, etc.

    Great topic, thank you.