🌞 Alexander Daychilde 🌞

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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • I’m an American. I was born here. I’m used to the taxes and the tipping and all of that stuff.

    I don’t find it confusing, sure. But I’m also used to it.

    But as an analogy, imagine that the posted speed limit wasn’t the actual speed limit. Well, in fact, it sort of works like that because you can usually but not always go 5 to 10 mph over.

    But let’s say that it was a little confusing. That it was more like 20%. Or it depended on some sort of. I don’t know how to make this analogy work, but maybe sometimes it was 20%, sometimes it was 25%, sometimes it was 15%. The point is that having to calculate that all of a sudden when you never have before is difficult and a pain in the ass.

    And if you come from a country with a speed limit, is the speed limit or it’s like always like five over would be safe or something like that. This percent thing is bullshit to you because you’ve never had to deal with this stupidity before. Doesn’t matter that the natives have no worries about it, this is weird and different and bullshit and there’s no good reason for it.

    Not the greatest analogy, but if you try and use it to you know get an idea of how they feel about it. I hope it helps a little bit






  • The bad news is that I definitely am not. In brief, when I was diagnosed with diabetes back in 2007, that was about the same time. I got my ADHD diagnosis and I didn’t have health insurance because I struggled to keep work.

    When I got that diabetes diagnosis, they put me on metformin and when that didn’t kick things down they’ve increased the dosage. But that didn’t work, because when you’re poor, you eat carbs and well. I need to cut out sugar. I didn’t know about carbs, they said well. I’m sorry that’s what you can afford.

    So I went unmanaged for a decade, till I had a saddle pulmonary embolism in 2017. We had been stuck in a small town where I absolutely could not find work, so I convinced my wife I had to look. So moved from Florida to Virginia because I found work up here, got insurance. I’ve been working on getting my health under control and doing pretty well with that these days except.

    Because of all that damage from 10 years of unmanaged diabetes, I’ve had seven heart attacks, my kidneys have failed, so I’m on dialysis, and have had a bologna amputation on my left leg. Among other lesser medical issues. LOL. I’m a wheelchair user these days as well.

    So I definitely have much less life expectancy thanks to this fucking country and these fucking fascists who keep us as the only developed Nation out of 33 who doesn’t have some form of universal healthcare.

    I’m a little bitter. LOL

    So will last, I’m not surviving all that well. Although, considering all these issues I’ve had, I’m doing relatively well health-wise. Although I’m writing this from the hospital where I’ve just had to have a procedural on my leg because I was having some blood flow issues there. Thanks to all of the damage. And I really can’t afford to lose that leg because I’ve already lost part of one.

    But in case you think I’m trying to ask for sympathy, I’m not. Everyday. I’m glad to be here. I’ll take whatever days I have left. I still try and have a positive attitude, and make people smile when I can. It’s just life.

    Well I’m disappointed in Neil gaiman and his choices be icky towards women, I still love the sandmam series and the character of death. When a character in that series died, and asked death, is this all I get? Death replied. You get the same as everyone else, one lifetime.

    I get one lifetime. You get one lifetime. We all get one lifetime. So make of it what you will