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  • Answer 1:

    with an old forum like running phpbb, it doesn’t matter to the user what the site is running. if it works, it works.

    with the fediverse, because it is interacting with other instances in a way forums never even conceived of, it is really important to the end user what software is running. the software is center stage.

    Answer 2:

    The blossoming of the threadiverse in the past 6 months has prompted/necessitated the creation of a lot of “general purpose” domains.

    Your examples are bookclub.phpbulletin.com and metalheads.vbulletin.net. But most lemmy instances are not themed around literature or music or anything else. More apt example would have been phpbbtalk.io or chatvbulletin.xyz. Such sites did start back in the day. But in the absence of federation they were not likely to cohere. So you don’t remember them, if you ever found them in the first place.


  • It is a very (the most?) common reason for downvoting and if you force people to chose a reason but don’t include it, they will just lie and the whole exercise will be rendered pointless.

    And you know even though it’s not your personal preference, I think there are situations where it’s really just helpful to know “a lot of people agree” or “a lot of people disagree”. Not everything is about having a long debate with many sides. Sometimes the most popular thing is the best thing and the least popular is that way for a reason. Or it can provide useful context to understand the comments. Like if I am posting to ask advice about how to fix something and several options are presented but one of them has 5x the upvotes, I am thinking that might be the best one.

    And it can tell you about the community. Like if I go into a community and I see someone says something nasty/dangerous/stupid and it has a similar votecount to other comments, I would think “I guess that sort of thing is acceptable here”. Whereas if I see it has lots of downvotes I might think “this comment is not representative of the general community here”. Voting based on like/dislike allows the community to express approval/disapproval when things don’t meet the threshold of moderator action; especially in very permissive communities where mods do not wish to take a heavy hand.

    Further more, agree/disagree votes cut down on identical “me too” type comments. They give people a way to show approval without needing to make a comment and sometimes that is appropriate.








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    11 months ago

    it’s harder to do than you think. you can tell people about signal because everyone understands messaging. and telling them to use signal is/was good advice!

    Trust me you will never even think to get into the differences between wayland and x11. hate systemd? excited about btrfs? it is literally impossible to discuss any of it without shared context.


  • omg I literally had to check if I had written this. We are almost the same.

    Main difference is that I have a working understanding about linux file structure and am comfortable with text files, but I have only on a couple of occasions even attempted anything with docker. it makes me tired to think about.

    Other than that I so feel you on changing things, not knowing what actually fixed the problem. And then having to re-learn everything from scratch on another occasion. I also feel there is a limit to how much I want to learn. I have no aspirations to do this for a living or to become extremely proficient. I have spent the past couple of weekends struggling with drives and shares and permissions etc. It should be simple but it’s hard and takes such a long time.

    On your advice because it sounds like you are in a similar situation I will try it.


  • I’ve been slowly dipping my toes into self hosting.

    What are the risks or disadvantages of using something like this? My plan has been to run debian with whatever services. Reading about this, it seems very complex and that makes me worried that it is more to go wrong.

    On the other hand, it’ll be 10 years til I learn how to do all this myself.

    So is it a good idea or not?