Of course they are rapists but once we said it what happens ? They go to prison and we wait for the next case ? The husband was teaching one of the guy how to do it, so some crazy bastard may have taken the inspiration.

Now to the topic. Rapist is not a social class or trait. The topic is that there is no specific social trait to define a rapist, any man of any social class coild be a rapist and this is the point that matter. After that we can ask why can any man, as nice as they seem, can turn a rapist. One thing we can note is that it is often when the man is in a position of power over the victim (coaches, priests, fathers, big brothers…) and looking with this angle we start to see a pattern. And to finish : of course not all men are rapists and not all rapists are men, but the balance is skewed. In 2023 in France, men represented 96% of agressors in sexual offenses. At some point, you can’t turn a blind eye on how.skewed it is.

Some media unerlined the fact that the only shared trait between all of them (includes the ones “not found”) is that they are men. Not rich, poor, crazy or anything, they are men, so the bear it is

For now my NAS it not really running anything (I want to have proper DNS/IDM before starting any other service and for storage I think I may go with owncloud ocis or nextcloud)

I am still using my ISP’s router, so the firewall rule is on the NAS (for now it is almost a do it all server), otherwise I would run the pihole on the router I think

Do you have any idea on how to do it ? Knowing that I am on opensuse

Thank you for the reply. It is exactly this

Drew DeVault (sway, sourcehut, hare… creator) wrote an article on this exact topic, asking autistic people on mastodon what they think of it. The tldr is that autistic people (those who answered) hate this excuse because they rather know when they make people uneasy to try to adjust, and also that if we need to tolerate this kind of discourse to make room for a minority of autistic people, then we are not doing a good job because it makes a lot of people really uneasy.

So, for nextcloud and automatic torrenting it should not be too bad to protect windows users ?

I don’t selfhost mail but I heard of stalwart

I recently found a video talkkng about privacy. One of the topic was that privacy does not ring any bell in people’s mind. Contrary to intimacy. Maybe we should all replace privacy by intimacy so we can tell what is really implied to non software people