This isn’t a very nice comment. This user is calling the other person’s wife a horrible person and questioning her love for him. This is pretty rude and out of place. He is adamant on arguing that someone’s wife is horrible and an asshole. He is being completely dismissive of people with mental health problems statistically having trouble with cigarettes and is putting them all under a judgmental blanket. Enormous amount of negativity here. He is not being nice.
ill remove any comments that involve two or more commenters being rude to one another, im not going to remove comments where somebody expresses their opinion on somebody who isnt even here.
They’re being bigoted and you know it. The world needs more compassion, not less. My comment you deleted was in response to not only this extreme lack of compassion but the encouragement that nobody, including the woman’s husband, should be compassionate to people like that woman. Somehow my comment was worse. Ok, I guess.
the thing is the original commenter was asking for feedback in a “am i the asshole” format, in that case its perfectly acceptable to make judgements on character because it was asked for. however you dont get to call other commenters assholes because you disagree with them.
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This isn’t a very nice comment. This user is calling the other person’s wife a horrible person and questioning her love for him. This is pretty rude and out of place. He is adamant on arguing that someone’s wife is horrible and an asshole. He is being completely dismissive of people with mental health problems statistically having trouble with cigarettes and is putting them all under a judgmental blanket. Enormous amount of negativity here. He is not being nice.
ill remove any comments that involve two or more commenters being rude to one another, im not going to remove comments where somebody expresses their opinion on somebody who isnt even here.
They’re being bigoted and you know it. The world needs more compassion, not less. My comment you deleted was in response to not only this extreme lack of compassion but the encouragement that nobody, including the woman’s husband, should be compassionate to people like that woman. Somehow my comment was worse. Ok, I guess.
the thing is the original commenter was asking for feedback in a “am i the asshole” format, in that case its perfectly acceptable to make judgements on character because it was asked for. however you dont get to call other commenters assholes because you disagree with them.