… Because of the word foreskin? Are you kidding me? There’s been a post on this community for a full day of someone with massive cleavage pulling the panties off of someone else that isn’t marked NSFW but I need to for the word foreskin?
It was just a request due to the mental imagery maybe not being appropriate for someone to peek over your shoulder at the office, hence “not safe for work”. Got a few reports on it and rather than start a whole debate in the mod channel, I asked you to tag it so that it is blurry by default to those who opt to blur NSFW posts.
I told you it wasn’t the word. You’re being silly. Still, as I stated earlier, I do agree with you about a need for clear rules and consistent application, so I brought it up. You already declared you’d be going but I think it important to state that the input is appreciated.
There’s no way for anyone on the Internet to know who’s standing behind your shoulder. Everyone makes a best effort to put those tags, but it’s all subjective.
Stop browsing at your desk if that’s a problem for you, don’t make it everyone else’s problem that you work with people that would fire you if they saw this meme on your phone.
Please put an NSFW tag on this. I was on the train and when I saw this I had to start furiously masturbating. Everyone else gave me strange looks and were saying things like “what the fuck” and “call the police”. I dropped my phone and everyone around me saw this image. Now there is a whole train of men masturbating together at this one image. This is all your fault, you could have prevented this if you had just tagged this post NSFW.
hey, its ok. no one is mad at you. you dont need to defend or justify that you didnt think about it yourself. you can just tag the post and everyone will be happy. no harm done :)
No, it’s more a stance of complete and utter disagreement. This is the third experience that I’ve had in as many weeks in an NSFW request on a post. The first one I disagreed with slightly, but could completely understand the request and also where they were coming from. The second one I disagreed with could understand it a bit less but could still see it to some extent. The word foreskin being something that needs to be marked as NSFW is, for me, ridiculous. I have deleted posts in the past instead of marking them as NSFW when requested and I think I’m just going to stop posting to this community instead. Partially because I don’t agree with this. Mostly because every single request so far has had me thinking that I don’t even understand what this community is trying to do.
I do not think anything less of the moderators, I am not angry at anyone here, I am not trying to insult anyone, I am not trying to push ill will in any way whatsoever. But. I am more confused in trying to figure out what to post here than I am anywhere else on Lemmy because the tone seems to be inconsistent. Whether that is through certain posts being marked as NSFW and other ones not, or certain comments being made by moderators that feel like they should apply to the same rules, but don’t. A moderator made a post within the last hour that has the words testicles written in it. That is not marked NSFW. So why does the word foreskin require it?
I’m just confused and I don’t really want to post somewhere where I’m constantly confused. I think I’m done with this community.
I am not a super active mod so I did not notice the other post. I definitely needs an NSFW tag. I do agree that a clear and consistent NSFW tag criteria should be communicated and applied and I will bring it up. Some pretty spicy posts have gotten through untagged and tagging is so low effort that there really is no reason not to do it.
Then remove the post. The word ‘foreskin’ being marked as NSFW while the word ‘testicles’ is posted by another moderator is genuinely the line for me. Y’all aren’t consistent amongst yourselves.
I also take quite a bit of issue with you saying that it requires no effort to mark it as NSFW, therefore I should have done it. The ease at which I could have done it is irrelevant. My issue comes from the fact that you guys are not consistent with asking things to be marked to NSFW and that some of the requests made therein make absolutely no sense. For example, if the word for skin is something that needs to be marked as NSFW, does the word fuck? What about shit?
I can get marking a post as NSFW if the entire post is a chastity cage. I think it’s fucking stupid asking me to do so when all of the chastity cages look nothing like a chastity cage and look like Pokemon, which was the entire point of the joke but whatever. I understand a little less when the chastity cage is very tiny and is lined up against a bunch of other monopoly pieces. But I cannot fathom any position in which the word foreskin would have to be marked as NSFW, while the rest of the posts on this community would be allowed. literally cannot come up with any situation in which the word foreskin in and of itself needs to be marked as NSFW while the rest of the community is allowed to run rampant with profanity.
This level of micromanagement is bothersome. It also leaves me in a position where I do not know what you guys as moderators want because you have too many cooks in the kitchen. You’re not able to be consistent with the things that you want this community to do, which means that I as a poster, do not know what you want, which means I as a poster will no longer be posting on this community anymore.
I myself don’t think stretching one’s foreskin over a Nintendo DS is a very “safe for work” idea. Context matters.
No. It doesn’t. The NSFW tag is supposed to be applied to something that is visually NSFW, not a concept or idea that when manifested inside of ones head becomes NSFW. The issue at hand is whether or not the visual information depicted rises to the level where an NSFW tag is needed. In my opinion? It does not. It also DEFINITELY does not when one mod is asking for the tag and another mod is doing the thing that would seemingly require that tag but doesn’t. That leaves me, as a poster, incredibly confused and not sure how the hell the rules are supposed to be applied. Combined with me repeatedly bringing the level of NSFW stuff in my posts down while seeing other posts go RAMPANT with utter rape jokes?
NSFW tag please homie
… Because of the word foreskin? Are you kidding me? There’s been a post on this community for a full day of someone with massive cleavage pulling the panties off of someone else that isn’t marked NSFW but I need to for the word foreskin?
Edit: Been a good run 196. Take care. I’m out.
It was just a request due to the mental imagery maybe not being appropriate for someone to peek over your shoulder at the office, hence “not safe for work”. Got a few reports on it and rather than start a whole debate in the mod channel, I asked you to tag it so that it is blurry by default to those who opt to blur NSFW posts.
Nah if your workplace is that sensitive then it’s on you to not browse Lemmy at work
The word “Fuck” is in the title of another post but you’re not asking to nsfw that despite being obvious more NSFW than the word foreskin.
Correct. If the word foreskin is considered NSFW then what is the logic for allowing profanity?
I told you it wasn’t the word. You’re being silly. Still, as I stated earlier, I do agree with you about a need for clear rules and consistent application, so I brought it up. You already declared you’d be going but I think it important to state that the input is appreciated.
There’s no way for anyone on the Internet to know who’s standing behind your shoulder. Everyone makes a best effort to put those tags, but it’s all subjective.
Stop browsing at your desk if that’s a problem for you, don’t make it everyone else’s problem that you work with people that would fire you if they saw this meme on your phone.
Please put an NSFW tag on this. I was on the train and when I saw this I had to start furiously masturbating. Everyone else gave me strange looks and were saying things like “what the fuck” and “call the police”. I dropped my phone and everyone around me saw this image. Now there is a whole train of men masturbating together at this one image. This is all your fault, you could have prevented this if you had just tagged this post NSFW.
Yeah, I thought the same thing this morning when I saw that. Still no NSFW tag or request from the mod despite literal rape joke.This is a funny meme that says foreskin
Edit: was not sub friendly, mod took action
hey, its ok. no one is mad at you. you dont need to defend or justify that you didnt think about it yourself. you can just tag the post and everyone will be happy. no harm done :)
No, it’s more a stance of complete and utter disagreement. This is the third experience that I’ve had in as many weeks in an NSFW request on a post. The first one I disagreed with slightly, but could completely understand the request and also where they were coming from. The second one I disagreed with could understand it a bit less but could still see it to some extent. The word foreskin being something that needs to be marked as NSFW is, for me, ridiculous. I have deleted posts in the past instead of marking them as NSFW when requested and I think I’m just going to stop posting to this community instead. Partially because I don’t agree with this. Mostly because every single request so far has had me thinking that I don’t even understand what this community is trying to do.
I do not think anything less of the moderators, I am not angry at anyone here, I am not trying to insult anyone, I am not trying to push ill will in any way whatsoever. But. I am more confused in trying to figure out what to post here than I am anywhere else on Lemmy because the tone seems to be inconsistent. Whether that is through certain posts being marked as NSFW and other ones not, or certain comments being made by moderators that feel like they should apply to the same rules, but don’t. A moderator made a post within the last hour that has the words testicles written in it. That is not marked NSFW. So why does the word foreskin require it?
I’m just confused and I don’t really want to post somewhere where I’m constantly confused. I think I’m done with this community.
I am not a super active mod so I did not notice the other post. I definitely needs an NSFW tag. I do agree that a clear and consistent NSFW tag criteria should be communicated and applied and I will bring it up. Some pretty spicy posts have gotten through untagged and tagging is so low effort that there really is no reason not to do it.
Then remove the post. The word ‘foreskin’ being marked as NSFW while the word ‘testicles’ is posted by another moderator is genuinely the line for me. Y’all aren’t consistent amongst yourselves.
I also take quite a bit of issue with you saying that it requires no effort to mark it as NSFW, therefore I should have done it. The ease at which I could have done it is irrelevant. My issue comes from the fact that you guys are not consistent with asking things to be marked to NSFW and that some of the requests made therein make absolutely no sense. For example, if the word for skin is something that needs to be marked as NSFW, does the word fuck? What about shit?
I can get marking a post as NSFW if the entire post is a chastity cage. I think it’s fucking stupid asking me to do so when all of the chastity cages look nothing like a chastity cage and look like Pokemon, which was the entire point of the joke but whatever. I understand a little less when the chastity cage is very tiny and is lined up against a bunch of other monopoly pieces. But I cannot fathom any position in which the word foreskin would have to be marked as NSFW, while the rest of the posts on this community would be allowed. literally cannot come up with any situation in which the word foreskin in and of itself needs to be marked as NSFW while the rest of the community is allowed to run rampant with profanity.
This level of micromanagement is bothersome. It also leaves me in a position where I do not know what you guys as moderators want because you have too many cooks in the kitchen. You’re not able to be consistent with the things that you want this community to do, which means that I as a poster, do not know what you want, which means I as a poster will no longer be posting on this community anymore.
I myself don’t think stretching one’s foreskin over a Nintendo DS is a very “safe for work” idea. Context matters.
It’s fair to point out inconsistencies in enforcement of the rule if you notice them though, not something I can comment on.
Are you all ignoring the fact that the title of NSFW posts is not blurred? The image is not NSFW by itself, the title is. It’s pointless to tag that.
If you want to tag it because of people that filter NSFW posts, I disagree with using the tag as a catch all, we need more tags.
No. It doesn’t. The NSFW tag is supposed to be applied to something that is visually NSFW, not a concept or idea that when manifested inside of ones head becomes NSFW. The issue at hand is whether or not the visual information depicted rises to the level where an NSFW tag is needed. In my opinion? It does not. It also DEFINITELY does not when one mod is asking for the tag and another mod is doing the thing that would seemingly require that tag but doesn’t. That leaves me, as a poster, incredibly confused and not sure how the hell the rules are supposed to be applied. Combined with me repeatedly bringing the level of NSFW stuff in my posts down while seeing other posts go RAMPANT with utter rape jokes?
No.
Absolutely not. I’m not posting here anymore.