didn’t we all grow up needing to be secretive? is it because of the adage of how ‘everyone thinks women are hot’ so like even straight women would get turned on more by their own moaning?

like as a guy i don’t even…have the impulse to involve my voice in it at all

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      I could make up a theory too that sounds great, without even believing it myself. :)

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        OP asked a question, I (and a few others) posted a possible answer. The pushback against this theory in particular seems to stem not from a place of reason, but from a place of emotion. I’d love to see genuine refutation to this theory, because it certainly isn’t concrete fact, but when the only thing I see is “lol stupid horny men and their fantasies” and “where were the WOMEN on this scientific study?” you’ll have to excuse me if I don’t think they’re worth entertaining as good faith rebuttals.

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          Yeah maybe. I’m a guy but I would be pissed too if some female made a completely ridiculous theory about men being a certain way. And they sometimes do. :)

          I understand the emotional reaction to this, and yeah, could be correct, but I doubt it myself.

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          How would you test your hypothesis? Is there a competeting hypothesis, and what evidence could we gather to disprove one or the other?