• SilentStorms@lemmy.dbzer0.com
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    47
    ·
    2 years ago

    I’m amazed at comments thinking this is unremarkable. Just look at the picture of the state he’s in. Very admirable that he was able to do this, I would not be surprised if he passes by not long after this.

    • PeleSpirit@lemmy.worldOP
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      44
      ·
      2 years ago

      I agree, he does look like death is close and I’m glad he went. They took down the video of him coming in, he was way more aware than the picture leads you to believe. He looked the same, but he was looking around with alert eyes. He’s a strong person.

    • Alto@kbin.social
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      22
      ·
      2 years ago

      I think it’s less of a “it’s not impressive he did” and more of a “im not sure anything could have stopped him”. He very clearly deeply loved her, and I really doubt he’s particularly worried about the end potentially coming a tad bit sooner at this point.

    • jballs@sh.itjust.works
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      12
      ·
      2 years ago

      I had no idea he was in hospice care since February. In my experience, I thought hospice care was where people go to die quietly with a little bit of dignity that hospitals don’t offer.

      • PeleSpirit@lemmy.worldOP
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        26
        ·
        2 years ago

        They offer it inside the hospital too, it’s a way for you to die while being taken care of. Most people aren’t prepared for providing the type of care they need. Hospice care nurses and doctors are heroes.

      • dirthawker0@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        17
        ·
        2 years ago

        Typically people go in when there’s not much time left, but hospice is really just a commitment that you’re not going to bother fighting whatever illness you’ve got or might get. People can go into hospice and stay there a long time, and even come out of it.

        • WaxiestSteam69@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          8
          ·
          2 years ago

          That’s a common misconception about hospice. My Dad spent the last year of his life in and out of hospice with the the last 5 months in hospice care. The main difference is hospice is strictly palliative - no heroic measures if some major event happens.