

Having a rough upbringing is no excuse. I also had a rough upbringing, and im an engineer now. You choose to try to make your situation better, or you don’t. The world may deal you a shitty hand, and if the issues you face are systemic, I can see it holding you back. But, it sounds like this guy is a poor white kid. They love to give out scholarships to poor white kids, its literally what got me through school.
It sounds like your friend is just not the brightest crayon in the box. Kind of hard to pull yourself out of a shitty situation when you don’t have a lot going on upstairs.
This was all over the news a few months ago. Some guy dressed up like a police officer and targeted a bunch of democrats in their state legislator, showed up to their houses and just started shooting. How did you miss that? It was all over lemmy at the time it happened.