• m4xie@lemmy.ca
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    6 days ago

    First off, she could be a T4T lesbian or a cis woman in a closed monogamous relationship with another cis woman.

    Second, many trans women have had orchiectomy or SRS. She could be in a relationship with one of us.

    She could sleep with trans women and neither of them like penetration.

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      Sure, but a cis man could also be dating a trans woman in any of these scenarios, and no one would say “heterosexuality” was what was preventing him from becoming a dad.

      When people joke about lesbianism = no pregnancy, it’s because they’re assuming all lesbian relationships are between the same kinds of bodies having the same kind of sex.