This is becoming more common in my town. I just either feel like an ass saying I dont have cash, or lying, but I also can’t be giving out 20’s to everyone who asks.

I feel bad for most of them but at the same time I get anxiety walking down the sidewalk and seeing someone up ahead that I know is going to ask me for money. Its not like you can say “oh no, I donate to services that help the needy” because that person isn’t necessarily being helped by that. And ignoring completely feels so mean, plus I tried that one time and the person was screaming at me as i walked away that I ignored them.

I also dont want my city to round them up and send them to prison camps, something they are planning and that I know a lot of people would vote for just to “get rid of them” but im not supporting that at all.

Its tough.

  • some_guy@lemmy.sdf.orgEnglish
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    5 hours ago

    Its not like you can say “oh no, I donate to services that help the needy” because that person isn’t necessarily being helped by that.

    I had a friend say exactly that to someone. When I asked them further about it, they said, “he knows where to find a cot.” That was more convincing to me before I listened to the “According to Need,” Podcast. It looked at homelessness in the Bay Area (where we live) and getting a bed is nearly impossible.

    I don’t usually give money cause I rarely carry small bills. But sometimes. And I will without fail buy food for anyone who asks.