• WoodScientist@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    Eh, at this point can we just agree that word doesn’t apply to people with actual disabilities? It hasn’t been used as such for decades. Maybe we just agree to only use it to refer to morons, the same way “moron” was once a medical term.

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      2 days ago

      Didn’t the words moron and imbecile follow along a similar line of etymological evolution that the r-word went through? Yet imbecile and moron are considered acceptable offensive words to use. To be honest it’s why I don’t really care that much about the r-word itself.

      • Smoogs@lemmy.world
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        3 days ago

        Seriously why are you acting like using words is so frigging hard.

        There’s so much worse shit going on in the world as is the entire point of the discussion and this is the hill your choosing to die on here? Mere inconvenience of learning to just use words?

        • Soup@lemmy.world
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          3 days ago

          There are many hills to die on, but I have standards and those standards are important. Just pick a better word next time and move on, it’s not that difficult.

          • TJDetweiler@lemmy.ca
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            How about you just ignore it and move on, instead of asking everyone to pander to your standards? Not to be rude, but no one on the internet gives a shit about your standards, and no one is going to try to comply with them. Use the downvote button if you don’t like the word

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              2 days ago

              What a sad person you are, to get so defensive when someone would ask you to not use a word that many people find offensive.

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        3 days ago

        Are people actually hurt by its usage or is it another case of “protecting” people who don’t really mind?

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          3 days ago

          I mean I know people hurt by it personally so I don’t use it, to each their own I guess. Surprised that’s a hot take though

          • Smoogs@lemmy.world
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            3 days ago

            speaking about hot takes…. So Why are you still going on about the inconvenience of just changing words? Just learn new words and be done with it. Can’t be that hard. Kids can learn new words every day. I believe in you.

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          3 days ago

          I think about 5% of the time it’s someone who’s actually affected, and 95% of the time it’s performative moralising. Of course there’s no way of telling which time is which…