nave@lemmy.ca to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 3 days agoanons brother has some strong opinionslemmy.caimagemessage-square157fedilinkarrow-up1846arrow-down115
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minus-squareRachelhazideas@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up26arrow-down18·2 days agoPeople when autistic boys have mental shutdowns: haha it’s so quirky when he hyperfixates. People when autistic girls have mental shutdowns: what a bitchy and emotional teenager. She’s not even autistic she just does it for attention.
minus-squareRooty@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up29arrow-down10·2 days ago“Mmmmm, yes, let’s turn a funny post about autistic hyperfixations into gender warfare. This will be a good use of everyone’s time.”
minus-squareouthouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up15arrow-down7·2 days agoDude this is about tye gendered double standard in mental illness. It is a thing, and for autistic women it hurts that we don’t have funny stories about our trauma like this and it sucks. The reaction to autistic men (here) is perfectly reasonable. We want that. Fuck off with your misogynist bullshit.
minus-squareTonyOstrich@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up22arrow-down1·2 days agoReally? Because I just got whipped with a switch or a belt when I had my little boy autistic meltdowns.
minus-squarehungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up5·1 day agoYeah, while there is definitely often sexism involved in how autistic girls and women vs autistic boys and men are treated, it’s not like any flavor of autism or anyone’s autistic meltdown is treated well…
minus-squareouthouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up5·2 days agoWell yes. Thats how we do eqiality i guess. Like the way we’re closing the eating disorder gap!
minus-squarechiliedogg@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up13·2 days agoAutistic boys sometimes get called quaint. Other times people call the police and they get shot.
minus-squareouthouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down3·edit-21 day agoSame for autistic girls! On the second part i mean.
minus-squareouthouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up6·2 days agoThe trick is to be violent enough that they cant infantilize you!
People when autistic boys have mental shutdowns: haha it’s so quirky when he hyperfixates.
People when autistic girls have mental shutdowns: what a bitchy and emotional teenager. She’s not even autistic she just does it for attention.
“Mmmmm, yes, let’s turn a funny post about autistic hyperfixations into gender warfare. This will be a good use of everyone’s time.”
Dude this is about tye gendered double standard in mental illness.
It is a thing, and for autistic women it hurts that we don’t have funny stories about our trauma like this and it sucks.
The reaction to autistic men (here) is perfectly reasonable. We want that. Fuck off with your misogynist bullshit.
No. It’s about concrete.
Really? Because I just got whipped with a switch or a belt when I had my little boy autistic meltdowns.
Yeah, while there is definitely often sexism involved in how autistic girls and women vs autistic boys and men are treated, it’s not like any flavor of autism or anyone’s autistic meltdown is treated well…
Well yes. Thats how we do eqiality i guess. Like the way we’re closing the eating disorder gap!
Autistic boys sometimes get called quaint. Other times people call the police and they get shot.
Same for autistic girls! On the second part i mean.
The trick is to be violent enough that they cant infantilize you!