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I’ve been told this doesn’t actually work, so instead I’ve been trying to make myself really pretty with a thicc ass.
Had a co-worker that grew up overweight and started to work out to get ripped. He was running to work most of the days, something like 8 km.
At some point he was discussing about dating, how he made those changes to be more attractive, but in the end he is attracting much more men than women.
Men tend to be more forward. If you’re not used to approaching women (in an appropriate context and manner), and/or you’re on the passive side as a person, you’re gonna have a bad time.
It wasn’t the muscles but the confidence we found along the way
It was the muscles, dudes like muscles
It’s true. I lost a bunch of weight and got in shape. Not buff, but I got a swimmer’s body. I did get some attention from women but honestly I got way more attention from dudes. I still get a lot more dude attention when I go somewhere new.
I miss r/flexinlesbians
Me too.
le sigh
A wanna be a stick. A brittle, boney little twig girl. This may partly be in rebellion against all the people who’ve told me that no one’s going to find that attractive. I want to be okay with having a body type that’s not for anyone else. But I still do want hugs, and people don’t like hugging sticks, so I dunno.
I like hugging sticks
💙💙💙💙💙
I wanna blush at buff people
Both! Both please
I wanna get really fat and die young and alone because fuck it.
Got a family member who cant do pretty much any form of exercise anymore without sending themselves to physical therapy, definitely scared me into action.
I want the girls to drool, not blush. So I’m going to go for a Nelly Furtado look.
Yum!
