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My eldest (just a teenager) insisted that she had a crown on one of her molars when she was younger. I have zero recollection of this, and told her (nicely) that I would have remembered something like that, because crowns are expensive. This went on for several months.
Finally, she pulled out an older pic of herself… With a crown in plain view.
Yes, I apologized. I think that’s when I realized my memory really was that bad.
Good to apologize. I’ve shown my mother proof after proof of things and nope, musn’t have happened, she’d have remembered!
It’s so infuriating.
Seriously. Before I had kids, I took advice like that to heart. I was never totally dismissive, and I absolutely acknowledged my memory being fuzzy, but it just strikes me as odd that I still have zero recollection of this ever happening. It drives me insane.
blinks
… I had a childhood?
Noooo I wanna keep my Schrodinger’s ADHD… not more confirmation that I might have it.
Hey, I remember a few things from my childhood! Like the trauma and the embarrassing moments!
I remember trauma that I that made me look cool at the time. Screaming at a girl after she answered a math question wrong because the teacher didn’t pick me. Grabbing a ball out of someone’s hands to play 4 square with my friends. Sitting inside while everyone in my class protested gun violence. I don’t like child me, he was wrong and raised by bigots
Take pride in having realized that and becoming a better person, friend!
not all of the trauma ;)
It’s still there, I just don’t remember why
Wait is not remembering your childhood adhd symptoms too? I wonder if thats why so many other can recall things and I cant. I can recall feelings but not actually events.
I can recall a few standout things, mostly highly emotional or embarrassing, but that’s it
I have a few memories from fun vacations, but only small snippets here and there, but those embarrassing or emotionally charged moments? Yup those stand out, and get replayed by my brain often.
Not remembering childhood is not necessarily an ADHD thing. The puberty hormones tell the brain to prune older memories, IIRC it’s called “childhood amnesia”.
Yeah but that applies to ages less than like… 5. Not ages up to 18
That part of ADHD is just these guys working overtime
Same same but I can’t remember huge chunks of my adults life. I chat with family and friends and they recall stories of things we’ve done together and I don’t remember anything. It helps if I see a photo but sometimes I still can’t recall anything and it just freaks me out.
One of the symptoms of depression is poor memory.
I don’t think that applies to me though, my memory is too poor to be depressed about anything.
Or get ptsd, or anxiety.
So, silver lining I guess.
Same, except I cannot remember song lyrics at all.
Does anyone remember much of their childhood?
I mean anyone over 30, or so.
I’m close to 40, and actually have a memory that goes uncommonly far back… like, I’ve considered looking up anyone researching memory about it.
According to what I’ve read, I shouldn’t really remember things too much before 5 (other than episodic and false memories?). But I can still draw the layouts of the first two houses I lived in (first one I moved before 3, the second one I moved shortly after 3). And I can verify that the layouts I remember are pretty accurate. I can remember where furniture was, who’s room was what, and other little memories like putting salt on a bunch of slugs, crying about not being allowed to trick-or-treat, being afraid of my own shadow once?.. strangely far back and more vivid than just flashes of pictures
I also am highly suspicious that I’m somewhere on the spectrum (maybe mixed with ADHD, hard to parse that out). I used to toe-walk as a kid, audio processing issues, below-average facial recognition; it kinda all started adding up the more I considered it
I’m supposed to start therapy again soon and will probably need to see psych about my ADHD meds when I go — so I guess we’ll see what they think. But figured I’d throw my experience into the bag here as well, cause it’s intrigued me for a while
TL;DR - my childhood memory seems to be a little uncommon
It took me years but I have a good system for taking my meds. They all go in a Sunday through Saturday pill container. Still having a bit of difficulty with my Ozempic since it’s once a week.
SPAMMING OVER 30 COMMUNITIES IS INAPPROPRIATE.
At this rate the only person spamming is you
That’s me, except I also forget song lyrics. It’s like my brain isn’t capable of paying attention to the words long enough to remember them. Is this an ADHD thing or am I just weird?
Pretty sure it’s an ADHD thing. I’m like that with people’s faces. For a long time I thought I had facial blindness but realized a couple of years ago, I’m just not generally paying attention to faces enough to record them into memory. When I actually learn what someone’s face looks like instead of their general shape/hair/clothes/accessories, I have no problem recognizing them in a variety of situations.
I do that with faces and names lol. I think I’ve gotten better at faces, but names, not so much. I think it’s also an anxiety thing, because when I do recognize someone, I gaslight myself into thinking I don’t. But that one time I thought I recognized someone and made it awkward keeps me from not gaslighting myself.
Shit… did I take my pill this morning?
