• queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    14 days ago

    If someone replies with just the words “that’s not dull”, I interpret it as more of a gatekeep-y response. The ones I naturally read as compliments usually have a little more flair, e.g. “Way too interesting to post here” “this is more of a c/extraordinarygentlemensclub post”

  • HubertManne@piefed.social
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    14 days ago

    well I should start by saying this is not really a shower thought and would make more sense in ask lemmy but for myself its kinda a compliment.

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    14 days ago

    I’ve only seen it in a you’re selling yourself short fashion.

    As long as it’s something you did, people seem quite relaxed about what gets posted.

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    13 days ago

    I count that as gatekeeping. It’s the reason my contribution to that community has degreased over 90%. If it was just “men’s club” then I’d have a ton of stuff to post there but nowdays I just consider it all too interesting to post there but not interesting enough to post anywhere else so I just don’t post it anywhere then.