• I'm back on my BS 🤪@lemmy.autism.place
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      1 month ago

      I find it much easier!

      • People are less shy
      • They have more experience
      • They know better what they are looking for
      • Their fantasy marriage/life has been renounced
      • People are much more chill about sex matters
      • Their romantic histories are quite telling
      • Most people have their own place
      • Careers are mostly stable

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      Cons

      • Much smaller dating pool
      • Many have kids already
      • More difficult to make friends/meet people in general
      • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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        1 month ago

        speak for yourself. i have found dating as a 30+ adult to be way more dramatic and miserable than it was in my 20s.

        nobody in my 20s was having a temper tantrum at dinner because the restaurant isn’t expensive enough for their ‘brand’.

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            1 month ago

            nah it’s multiple dates. it’s also a common attitude that men need to ‘impress’ dates by spending a lot at restaurants otherwise they ‘devalue’ a woman. asking someone out on a cheap date to get to know them isn’t the point… the point is to win them over by spending money on them.

            basically a lot of people see dating as prostitution with extra steps. and wonder why they are single.

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              Dude, I’ve been on many, many dates in my 30s. I have never experienced this in the least and I am a frugle date. I recommend reevaluating your “type” of women if this is a recurring thing.