• sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world
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        2 days ago

        It absolutely was. It was tangential to my comment. Information I already had (which you could glean from my comment). And completely unnecessary.

        Thanks for calling out the typo!

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              1 day ago

              Then the person who originally responded to them wasn’t mansplaining, and used facts to contradict what they said. Then they acted like they already knew that

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                1 day ago

                The person who had the lengthy the explanation about cocaine and Coca-Cola was correct - it just wasn’t what I was talking about. I was referencing diet pills in the '50s that were made out of amphetamines (“momma’s little helpers”).

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                  16 hours ago

                  You did so in comparison to cocaine, in response to something that only mentioned cocaine in the context of cocaine cola. If you say it wasn’t cocaine but speed back then, how am I supposed to get that you are referencing diet pills and not at all contradicting the whole cocaine cola bit?

                  But yeah, diet pills were basically just speed back then too. I can’t argue that. Not sure why that’s related to cocaine in cola though. Turns out people do all kinds of drugs, especially when readily available.

      • sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world
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        2 days ago

        It absolutely is: Mansplaining is a colloquial term referring to a man condescendingly explaining something to someone, typically a woman, who already understands it, often in a way that assumes the other person’s ignorance. It was info I already had (which a reader could glean from my comment), did not require the explanation, and was tangential to my comment.

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          16 hours ago

          It was info I already had (which a reader could glean from my comment),

          Could they?

          do cocaine (although I’m pretty sure it was speed back then, but I’d still take it).

          …in response to a reference to cocaine cola. That doesn’t sound like you were aware cocaine cola was actually a thing, but rather sounds like you were saying people weren’t using cocaine much but were doing speed instead, implicitly suggesting cocaine cola wasn’t a thing, at least not commonly.

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          2 days ago

          No, it wasn’t. Their explanation wasn’t condescending, they very likely didn’t know you were a woman, you likely didn’t know they were a man, and from your comment it wasn’t obvious that it was knowledge you already had.

          They were sharing knowledge and you got defensive for no reason. Be better, because you were the only one being condescending.

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            16 hours ago

            they very likely didn’t know you were a woman,

            I didn’t. I don’t usually check the user profile and comment history of whoever I am responding to to verify their demographics before responding.