• toynbee@lemmy.world
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      5 days ago

      I’ve a friend who - when in an ornery mood - refers to his wife as his “ex girlfriend” and describes their wedding day as the day they broke up, since she lost the title of “girlfriend.”

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        3 days ago

        I’ve heard people say “my girlfriend at the time… now wife”

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          3 days ago

          Indeed, I tend to go with “then-girlfriend”; if it’s relevant to the conversation, I’ll add “now wife.” Occasionally I think I’ve said some form of “the woman who is now my wife.”