I’ve found myself being interested in girls who weren’t what I’d typically find attractive at first but their personalities grew on me so much that I started to be blind to the looks issue.
That was me and my ex, until she turned out to be an actual monster of a human being and consequently I stopped finding her attractive physically too. Turns out horrible people can mask it for a while. But when I still liked her as a person, I was also attracted to her physically
Now that we’re divorced and a fair amount of people have asked me what I saw in her (look wise in particular, for some reason), I’ve told them that her looks were never an issue for me at the time, I even found her beautiful. If you love someone and see them smile or laugh, that just changes everything after all. It was only after it was over that I realized she was never actually conventionally attractive.
I’ve found myself being interested in girls who weren’t what I’d typically find attractive at first but their personalities grew on me so much that I started to be blind to the looks issue.
That was me and my ex, until she turned out to be an actual monster of a human being and consequently I stopped finding her attractive physically too. Turns out horrible people can mask it for a while. But when I still liked her as a person, I was also attracted to her physically
Now that we’re divorced and a fair amount of people have asked me what I saw in her (look wise in particular, for some reason), I’ve told them that her looks were never an issue for me at the time, I even found her beautiful. If you love someone and see them smile or laugh, that just changes everything after all. It was only after it was over that I realized she was never actually conventionally attractive.
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