• ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
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    11 hours ago

    Umm technically by ignoring them she is the opposite of a slut. Just saying.

    Not that there’s anything wrong with sluts. I’m very slutty myself.

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      11 hours ago

      Most women learn from a very young age that the real definition of slut is 1) you used to have sex with me and not longer do so you’re a slut; 2) I want to have sex with you but you don’t notice me therefore you’re a slut; and 3) my boyfriend, husband, guy I like thinks you’re hot so you’re a slut. Doesn’t have anything to do with what sex the “slut” may or may not be having. Many women were labelled sluts while they were still virgins.

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          11 hours ago

          slut isn’t a slur lol Otherwise, neither of us would be casually dropping it without fear of social repercussion.

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        I guess it would make sense to counter that slur with a counter-slur.

        I.e., when somebody calls you a slut, respond by calling them a “needy one” or sth. Might hit a spot.

        where the “need” is the need to be an asshole, i mean

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      I’m very slutty myself.

      I hope you’re prepared for the flood of dik piks you’re about to receive from the unwashed masses

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        11 hours ago

        OPs got plenty of their own dick pics on their profile.

        I salute you ExhibiCat, fellow uncut person 🫡

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          11 hours ago

          Yeah I didn’t want to mention that because I don’t like to share them nonconsensually. I also mark them as NSFW of course. At the instance I post them they’re welcomed. But yes my username checks out. 🤭

          I’m in Europe, circumcision is very rare here.

          I probably should make a separate account though to post SFW. Thanks for the reminder

      • ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
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        11 hours ago

        Well I’m a guy. Heteroflexible and pretty open though so I don’t mind dick pics.

        In fact the instance I’m on is full of them :)

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      11 hours ago

      Sure but that doesnt matter. The point is making insults they thing will hurt or humiliate you, because they feel humiliated. People do that by insulting presumed insecurities.

      Women get called fat ugly sluts, men get called small dicked virgin losers. We’re just calling each other failures at our gender roles.

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    8 hours ago

    You drastically overestimate the share of people’s impulses that come from rational thinking, and fail to account for the fact that humans are rationalized beings, not rational beings. That means, people are emotionally first, and secondarily taught to act somewhat rational.

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    11 hours ago

    Couldn’t imagine ever sending a dik pik, but if I did, it would be self-deprecating and meant to elicit laughter. Talk about “short” comings.

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    18 hours ago

    I still have never received an unsolicited dick pic. I’ve never struggled to get men to like me though… I wonder what it is about me that tells them not to bother with the picture.

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      11 hours ago

      Wow you are a girl and you’ve next got one? All of my female friends get them constantly.

      What I get a lot is “young girls” saying they’re sooo interested in me. With profiles that were just created. I’m sure they’re actually a hairy guy named Pyotr.

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      18 hours ago

      It’s been 15 minutes since you posted, how many did you receive until now?

      Edit: here’s something even better. A dik dik pic.

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      14 hours ago

      over the many years I have been online, I have received 100s of unsolicited dick picks. I am a guy, and straight. meh, just letting me know to block them I guess.

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          Lemmy is the first place I have used this name, so I doubt it. One of the longest use ones, like almost 20 years, had Mr. in it, so I just think its dudes wanting other dudes to see their dick, maybe get one back. that or some sort of scammer/conman.

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    I took a picture of a sparrow once. They’re called Spatz in German. In my local dialect, they’re called “Spotz” ʃpɔts in english it’s pronounced like “shpowts” - which is one of the words used for penis as well. Picture in German is Bild and in the local dialect it’s “büdl” ˈbʏdl in English pronounced like “boodle” (you have no pronunciation for ü).

    So in my local dialect, a sparrow-pic is pronounced the same as a dick-pick. Spotzbüdl - ʃpɔtsˈbʏdl - spowthsboodle

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      We kind of do have a pronunciation of ü The cornish town Bude, would be pronounced by locals as “Büd” It’s how I explained to my kids how to handle umlaut words, if it was the English word “lane“ imagine it’s spelled ‘laen’ and then get rid of the e to make ‘län’. It’s rare but some English words still use æ as a sound not a pair of letters. Spelæological for caving for instance. Often simplified to speleological.

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        I feel like it’s easier to tell English speakers to make an “eee” sound with their lips and then pronounce the vowel in question (ä, ö, ü) with the rest of their mouth (at least that’s how we do it when we sing in German, I know choral German doesn’t always line up with proper German pronunciation).

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    This felt like hearing one of those hardcore grannies dropping a truth bomb on their spoilt grandchild in public, and all people in a 10m radius shut up and start thinking if it also applies to them.

    Doesn’t happen often, but Balkan grannies are like Speed Metal when they hit.