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I’ve posted this comic a frightening amount in the last few weeks.
Sexy losers is GREAT! What a deep cut.
Well, that’s one way to stop someone from jumping.
P. Sherman 42 Wallaby Way Sydney
…wait a minute
Time to crack open a cold one.
No, no. This is accurate.
= No
If a woman isn’t insatiable for me I’m not interested
This man fucks
Sounds like you just don’t know how to satisfy 🤷♀️
It’s a lot less effort to satisfy someone who wishes to be satisfied.
An audible sigh followed by “Fine” or “Sure” = Yes
But the lack of enthusiasm really kills the mood.
If you’re at that point, often, repeatedly… unless you’re with an Ace, your relationship is either over or wholly performative.
Probably best that you realize that.
IMO, consenting but unenthusiastic sex is worse than none, you should both have more respect for yourselves and either talk out what’s really bothering one or both of you, or just admit that you don’t even like each other.
The sort of converse of this is that if you do actually want to have sex with someone, but tell them you don’t, or never directly say yes… yeah you need to learn how to communicate directly instead of vaguely through extremely non objective innuendo.
So do the tears. …wait
Their tears or mine?
By the time I’m done, everyone is crying.
Ah yes, I’ve heard they call you The Onion.
dead = no
Came here to say this
Good catch, wtf
Thay’s the joke folks.
Technically, humans are animals so this basically rules out everything except corpses and sentient plants, fungi, and inanimate objects.
Where my shroom coomers at
~Cecilia Granata
I feel like you’re allowed to hesistate and still say a “yes” yes, especially since the “threatened and then said yes” is separate on this. It can be complicated and thought over first, no?
Okay, I’m gonna bite this bait - isn’t consent something decided later? Nobody can prove they said “yes or no” later after all so usually it’s based on who we decide to trust.
Consent can absolutely be decided immediately. But as the situation changes, consent can too. You might’ve been ok with safe sex, and said only “yes” assuming that was the situation. Only to then find out there never was a condom and now you have a greatly increased risk of pregnancy or disease. That consent is now revoked, and retroactively. That isn’t a case of “lol too bad you said yes.”
What about after everyone agrees, the person looks back, and regrets it for some reason.
Can they prosecute for rape, even if you followed all the rules of consent?
Also, one of the reasons I was thinking to just have the other person just tie me to a bed or something and use me, they can do what they want and unless they do something pretty stupid, revoke my own consent. And they literaly can’t be raped if they have to do everything themselves.
No wondering if this person changed their mind or are faking it or something, because they can always just get off, ensuring consent is now just the other person’s problem.
Eh … I’m on the fence about “hesitated yes”.
If we’re to reducto ad absurdum it, exactly how much hesitation turns a yes to a no? In fractions of a second, please.
There are also a multitude of reasons to hesitate that aren’t “I want to say no but am afraid of saying it”. Such as stunned silence because he or she couldn’t believe someone so awesome wanted to have sex with them. Or confusion because it was loud and they misheard the word ‘sex’ as ‘sax’ and was wondering where they could possibly get one of those at this hour.
Also, auditory processing disorder. Give them a god damn minute.
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Yes
Danger: Please don’t give anyone the idea that the only way for men to get lucky with a woman is via murder.
Well, we weren’t going to, but now you just did.
Thanks OP.
murder?? what kind of sick predator do you take me for?
i’m a scavenger thank you
Ah, I see you’re a man of culture as well
Yeah I got a shovel thank you
I might get hate for this, but you can still consent when you’re drunk, so long as you’re not like barely conscious drunk or you’re not being manipulated coerced by someone.
Must be fun being an incel slopper on lemmy, isn’t it?
