• kadaverin0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
    211·
    11 hours ago

    Dumb shit like that is a relationship ender/red flag for me. I’m not a praise dispenser nor am I going sit there while you cook up petty reasons to get angry at me. Grow the fuck up.

  • vga@sopuli.xyz
    263·
    22 hours ago

    So the question basically, if you get to brass tacks and all, is “which of these 14-16 year old girls would you fuck”

    Perhaps op and his gf are 14-16 though

    • pyre@lemmy.world
      4·
      7 hours ago

      TIL Disney sucks at drawing 14-16 year olds. this is like Hollywood casting 30 year olds as highschool students

    • yyprum@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
      8·
      11 hours ago

      I mean… Technically the question is about being pretty. I can think of girls being pretty without actually thinking sexually of them. The same way I can think of some guys being handsome and I don’t suck dick.

        • yyprum@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
          5·
          11 hours ago

          No, I haven’t tried it, I might be good at it indeed, I might be amazing, or hell, I might give the best blowjobs in the world. I will leave it at the possibility of being the best cock sucker before I discover I am mediocre at it, I guess I cannot try it then.

    • Patches@ttrpg.network
      9·
      13 hours ago

      A few of them are 18+. Elsa, Anna, Cinderella, and Pocahontas I think.

      But whether they are real people, cartoons, or sheogoraths from the fifth dimension. It’s a shit game that only a shit partner would play.

  • HertzDentalBar@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    30·
    1 day ago

    How does sucking dick negate this behavior… I’ve sucked plenty of dick that would do shit like this, needless to say those dicks only got sucked once

    • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com
      312·
      1 day ago

      I dunno, my queer drama’s always been more interesting. Less basic. Somebodys asks if you’d still love them as a worm, we all know the right answer is ‘I’d worship you, shai-hulud’ 'cuz we all want that spice.

      • Delphia@lemmy.world
        16·
        1 day ago

        I worked the door of a very popular gay venue for a year. The security staff called the drama “Gays of our lives” and it was fucking amazing.

          • Delphia@lemmy.world
            17·
            1 day ago

            Nah you arent that unique you know. Its the same shit as straight clubs just with less violence and WAY more over the top acting and better writing. Straight guys throw chairs and punches, flamboyant gay dudes throw drinks and slap faces, Its just way more entertaining to be around.

            The lesbians on the other hand… that shit was vicious but infrequent. Like dudes brawling but with hair pulling and nails as well.

            • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com
              3·
              1 day ago

              and better writing

              That. Is. What. I’m. Saying. Not that we dont; that we’re netter written and less repetitive.

              the lesbians on the other hand…

              So it might just be the fact that im kind of giant, but all my messy break-ups had many-aftershocks psychological shit. No physical confrontation even when my fresh ex was a very generally physical person.

              • Delphia@lemmy.world
                9·
                1 day ago

                I think we’re pretty much on the same page. The stories were the same “Thats my ex” or “Stop flirting with my girl/boy” or “you think you’re better than me” stuff but the shit talking before things got physical was so much better.

                Meatheads get to the punching part too fast for it to be funny. You have enough time to go “Aw fuck…” and it was on. I once saw someone go 5 solid minutes on another persons shoes and it was amazing.

      • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.worldEnglish
        21·
        1 day ago

        I’ve been around the block a few times and I’m afraid I have to report that nerd love transcends sexual orientation.

        • HalfSalesman@lemmy.worldEnglish
          1·
          13 hours ago

          As a male bi who tends to sleep with women more than men and tend to favor fem guys (I’m picky), I wish I was gayer.

          That said, bi and poly women are fantastic.

      • HertzDentalBar@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        21·
        1 day ago

        All were saying is drama exists In all spheres. Where you like to stick it means nothing.

        Goto a gaybar and people watch, it’s fun and some of the drama you see is absolutely entertaining. Humans are humans.

        • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com
          1·
          1 day ago

          But whether or not you have the option of building your life around a relatively narrow script that you might only deviate from a little, or you can only pick up scraps of it, or you have to start with a totally blank page every day does effect how interesting and novel your drama’s gonna be.

          I’m asserting a difference of entertainment quality, not quantity or severity.

    • Soulg@ani.socialEnglish
      39·
      2 days ago

      But why are all straight people everywhere like this one meme, am I right fellas?

    • Someonelol@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
      1612·
      2 days ago

      Lemmy.ml apparently. When you type B…I…T…C…H it automatically turns to removed. They’re treating you like some kid who can’t handle grown-up words. Switch to another instance if you want more freedom with your choice of words.

      • seralth@lemmy.worldEnglish
        121·
        22 hours ago

        The more I see people from .ml and the more I learn about it The more I think anyone on .ml is either just objectively stupid or ignorant of how stupid the instance is.

        • zod000@lemmy.ml
          7·
          8 hours ago

          Not all of us. I just read what it said on the main page “A community of privacy and FOSS enthusiasts, run by Lemmy’s developers” and thought that sounded good. I’m sure a lot of people that were new to lemmy figured the instance run by the devs themselves would be a safe bet. There also wasn’t nearly as much drama around .ml back then, but it honestly hasn’t been enough of an issue to make me create an account on a new instance and switch.

        • Honytawk@feddit.nl
          41·
          20 hours ago

          I think it has to do with what they are used to. They never knew the freedom other instances provided.

          Also, don’t you have to read like the Communist Manifesto to even join lemmy,ml? Sounds to me only something objectively stupid people would do to join an internet forum.

          • zod000@lemmy.ml
            3·
            8 hours ago

            lol, no of course not, unless that changed later. I would have noped right out.

      • Stamets@piefed.worldOPEnglish
        593·
        1 day ago

        Lemmy.ml banned me on my Startrek.website account years ago during the height of my posting. Like when I was posting 20 things every hour or two. Why? Posted some Jimmy Neutron meme about Disney having a first gay character and it being the 14th one this month. Title was like “Can always be the first in China at least for a couple minutes” or something along those lines.

        From what I heard from some of the people who worked on .ml behind the scenes, they had to reverse the ban because a bunch of people started asking why there was no new content and other people started to realize it was because I had gotten banned.

        Have never posted on lemmy.ml since and don’t bother to interact with the instance at all. I don’t have it blocked because not all users are like the admins but like fuck am I ever adding to that shithole ever again. I thought that was the worst I’d ever deal with from admins… and then I started getting personally harassed by the startrek.website admins across multiple websites and basically forgot about lemmy.ml entirely.

        • merc@sh.itjust.works
          201·
          1 day ago

          But, isn’t it wonderful that we can have a fediverse where there can be annoying instances like those ones, but if you don’t like it you can just move or block?

          The fediverse is chaotic but I sure prefer chaos to having one corporate overlord with one point of view, and one goal, which is getting ads in front of as many eyeballs as possible.

        • Tar_Alcaran@sh.itjust.works
          6·
          1 day ago

          . I don’t have it blocked because not all users are like the admins but like fuck am I ever adding to that shithole ever again.

          Blocking an instance only blocks you from seeing communities there, it doesn’t block you from seeing users posting in other communities.

          • seralth@lemmy.worldEnglish
            3·
            22 hours ago

            This is a fundamental flaw of the system if you ask me.

            Not being able to blanket block the users of an instance sucks.

        • realitista@lemmus.orgEnglish
          295·
          2 days ago

          They are just trying to be like the CCP, their heroes. Wait until they roll out their social credit system in upcoming Lemmy releases!

          • tal@lemmy.todayEnglish
            8·
            1 day ago

            They are just trying to be like the CCP, their heroes.

            https://old.reddit.com/r/ChineseLanguage/comments/uob3rv/are_curse_words_censored/i8dcxjz/

            Well, there is a type of censorship I guess. Some apps don’t allow people to post bad words like 卧槽，and so on. So people usually abbreviate the bad words to the first letter of each pinyin. So 卧槽 becomes “wc”.

            This isn’t just for bad words tho, there’s many online slangs like xswl which means 笑死我了, and many more.

            https://quoteinvestigator.com/2021/07/12/censor/

            The Net interprets censorship as damage and routes around it.

            — John Gilmore, founder, Electronic Frontier Foundation

          • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com
            145·
            1 day ago

            We’re all down to shit on new-deal-capitalism-with-chinese-characteristics, but you realize america’s had this for decades? Getting upset that it’s some uniquely chinese novelty is a little infuriating, as someone who has been doxxed and denied housing by that crap.

            • Mose13@lemmy.world
              5·
              1 day ago

              Idk if something has changed but I think this is a baseless claim.

              If it’s just visual gamification…we’ve sort of already come out against that, since we discourage karma-seeking by not displaying user’s comment and post score totals.

              (Source)

              That is a 3 years old comment, but I can’t find anything newer (mostly looking at GitHub) suggesting Lemmy devs have any intention of adding karma

              • Captain Aggravated@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
                4·
                1 day ago

                Yeah I pretty much know that, and consider the lack of a karma score a feature not a bug of Lemmy. It’s just the obvious joke to crack on the subject of a social credit score on the fediverse.

          • Ferrous@lemmy.mlEnglish
            58·
            1 day ago

            So, what are the facts relating to China’s Social Credit System (SoCS)? First, a system does exist, but it is very different from what is imagined by many critics outside China. The biggest disconnect is around the notion of scores. Some commentators seem to imagine that a magic algorithm draws from AI cameras and internet surveillance all over the country to calculate a score that determines everyone’s place in society. In reality, the SoCS is not the techno-dystopian nightmare we fear: it is lowly digitalized, highly fragmented, and primarily focuses on businesses. Most importantly, such a score simply does not exist.

            https://merics.org/en/comment/chinas-social-credit-score-untangling-myth-reality

            Classic lib move: dunking on nonexistent “ebil ccp” systems that started off as rumors mere days after the west decided it would clamp down on any semblance of internet freedom - upon a backdrop of rapidly burgeoning fascism and concentration camps. The US State Department has effortlessly oriented you.

        • Badabinski@kbin.earth
          22·
          2 days ago

          Anywhere but lemmygrad or hexbear, really. lemmy.dbzer0.com, lemmy.world (EDIT: ngl, I forgor there are multiple issues with this one. We should also be pushing folks to smaller instances anyways, because mega-servers are a threat to the fediverse.), lemmy.zip, or lemmy.blahaj.zone are all good ones. I’m quite partial to kbin.earth (although you’d need a different app), and there’s also piefed instances.

        • Excrubulent@slrpnk.netEnglish
          15·
          2 days ago

          Literally anywhere that isn’t lemmygrad or hexbear will usually be better. You could go to an instance with open sign up until you find somewhere else, but they tend to house a lot of closeted reactionaries, I assume because those people like the anonymity. Personally I just looked up instances to see which ones I liked. They’ll have a description of who they are and if sign ups require an application you just say why you want to join their instance. It’s not a huge deal really.

        • Gerudo@lemmy.zip
          8·
          1 day ago

          My 2 cents is lemmy.zip. it’s the most like the lost treasure that was lemm.ee. it leaves a lot of censoring up to the user

        • jballs@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
          5·
          2 hours ago

          sh.itjust.works is awesome. The admins are cool as shit, and as you can tell from the name, there’s no BS censorship.

        • FlihpFlorp@piefed.zipEnglish
          6·
          1 day ago

          I’m a refugee from lemm.ee and I’ve been enjoying piefed.zip and the .zip lemmy instance

          Chose this one since I’ve heard (and from what I’ve seen) that like lemm.ee, the .zip instances only block the REALLY problematic stuff NSFL and illegal content, leaving it to the user to fill their own block lists rather than defederating

          Edit, also used an mbin instance, I never really liked the microblog side of the fediverse (just not my thing) and wanted to continue to use voyager app

        • ikidd@lemmy.worldEnglish
          91·
          2 days ago

          Might want to consider piefed instances as well, it’s a fediverse front-end not developed by the weaklings that decided to censor your innocuous words.

          I should do that too…

        • realitista@lemmus.orgEnglish
          7·
          2 days ago

          Literally any non-ml instance would be a way better choice. Also avoid hexbear. The rest are pretty solid. I’m happy with speed of Lemmus.org, but lemmy.world worked fine for me too.

        • PastaCannon@lemmy.ml
          216·
          1 day ago

          The level of shit .ml, lemmygrad and hexbear users receive for no good reason leaves me always speechless.

          You shouldn’t say b.itch in person, we don’t teach kids to say it, why is it crazy to moderate them?

          • Vespair@lemmy.zipEnglish
            3·
            15 hours ago

            I actually teach the kids in my life that intent is more important than “magic naughty words,” so they can say bitch all they want so long as they aren’t being hateful. So maybe starting from the assumption that the status quo is reasonable and has merit isn’t the smartest idea?

            • brbposting@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
              2·
              2 hours ago

              Word censorship is ridiculous for sure

              I mean is this the damn internet or not!

              That said would kindly request a lil introspection on this comment

            • PastaCannon@lemmy.ml
              25·
              22 hours ago

              You can tag me whatever makes your ego feel better. I guess everything goes (including insults) but discuss the topic and reply the questions. You just proved my point ahahah

    • thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org
      194·
      2 days ago

      growing up with a single mom, an older sister, and a younger sister… there were only a couple word that were never acceptable

      I could say shit fuck asshole motherfucker and so on

      but the words Cnt and Btch were absolutely unacceptable

      I remember one time, I was about to call my little sister a B*tch and I didn’t even know my mom was in the room but before I could even get the word out of my mouth, she smacked me so hard. I was like BUT THEY SAY IT ON TV SO IT MUST BE OK. Yeah that was the day I got a good lesson in how rules work for something and not for other but the rules mom makes are the only real rules you have to follow in life